Question by heather of the fields: Does anyone know a seriously christian single guy who doesn’t want to stay single?
Specs:
Between the ages of 26 and 36
Totally wild about Jesus
Loves other cultures, especially muslims
Believes in the gifts of the spirit.
Has never been married.

If so, I’d love to meet him!
Most of the guys I meet my age are married.
Thanks for the well wishes I hope you find someone at the right time who is a wonderful match for you too! Unfortunately, I haven’t met anyone (obviously) at any of the churches I’ve ever gone to, or I’d be married. Oh well.

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Answer by Cirion
Unfortunately I’m only 20. I do hope you meet someone though. There needs to be more people like yourself out there my own age as well! Seems like most of the people 18-25 are either taken also or too immature, so I know how you feel.

I’m not sure this site is a good choice to meet anyone though, as a Christian at least. Most people here aren’t Christian… I’d recommend sticking to church or if you have to, a predominately Christian online dating service.

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Question by NC christian classy lady!!!: Single parent young but a real christian. AM I THE ONLY ONE LEFT?
With so many people “proclaiming Christianity” how do I get to meet people who are ginuinely in love with Christ? I go to church but the people there are much older or younger or married. I would love to have female and male friends to hang out with on the weekends or to conversate with for encouragement, opinions, or revelation but its hard to meet christian people, especially REAL christians! What do I do? My daughter and I end up spending weekends at home or finding things to do at church. Im happy with that but I want to do some recreational things to enjoy myself also and Im quite sure my daughter would love to have someone her age to play with also. What do I do? Fellowshiping with other churches seem to be ok but its the same thing either older, younger, or married people there too. Where are all the 25-30 christians I can fellowship or hang out with?

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Answer by Noclone
Maybe this is something you can bring up to your church. Start a single parents group and have them do an age range just like singles groups.

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Question by acissej: How can I heal after a break-up with a great guy (Christian perspective)?
I have been in an on and off relationship with a great guy for the past five years. He is intelligent, sweet, hard-working, affectionate, caring, and very helpful. You might be thinking why in the world did you break up with this guy and to be honest I wonder about the same thing every second. However, the thing that he does not have is initiative. I just feel like I have to tell him where to go, what to do, what to help me with, what to do next in life, etc. He does all this things if I tell him to, but I don’t want to be pushing him every second. I feel exhausted all the time and I feel like he does this things because he loves me and not because he wants to. I also think that if I have to tell him to do all these things I might as well do them myself or be alone for that matter.

For all this time we have been dating he has talked to me about all these wonderful plans and dreams that he wants to accomplish but so far he hasn’t done any of them. He says that if I would be more expressive of my love (and I don’t mean physically) he would be able to do all this things I want of him, but since I need to see all those things to feel loved (all the things he is great at + goals and doing things to accomplish them) I always been kind of hesitant about actually marrying him. I need that because I am a very service oriented person and I am always thinking where I can help in Church and my community and what plans God has for me in this area. I am always involved in some sort of community service or church service and I feel I need a guy that likes to do all these things as well. Not to be busy all the time, but to serve as God called us to serve. Am I doing something wrong here? Am I being immature? I have not been on many relationships myself. Should I get back with him? This is the reason why we have been dating on and off for all this time and because this has always been a long distance relationship.

Another factor is that I become a Christian during the time we have been together. He did too after a long wait from me, but we are in different levels of commitment to Christ and that also makes me feel like I am the one leading the relationship and he follows. As I understand it (correct me if I am wrong) the guy is the one who is supposed to lead the relationship, not the girl. I don’t want to be with a guy who only wants his way, but I don’t want a guy that only does what I tell him to do either.

Please help! As you can see, I need answers from a Christian perspective. And if you are a single Christian guy that meets the qualities I am looking for please contact me. I at least need to know that these guys still exist.

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Answer by MOs fishin
Life is complicated like that, and even when we think it might be God’s plan, even his plans can change, later in life you will see. Keep your faith and things always work out for the best. But you are right a guy is suppose to lead in the relationship.

Good Luck and God Bless

MO

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Question by Busisiwe: Dear all, Dating a non-christian and How do I get out?
The relationship that i have put myself in, i’m finding hard to be able to turn away from it. Yes i do love him but im willing to let him go so that i could focus with my walk with Christ. I find it that he does not respect the fact that im a christian and i do things differently from him or in this world.

Need advise – (SA)

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Answer by Mouhamad D
if you are willing to leave then tell him that he has two choice, either he converts to christianity and stays with you and helps you with whatever things christians do, or u leave him

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Question by kyle s: is it bad for a christian guy to mastubate when he single and his true love live far away and they never meet?
i totaly in love with this girl in the phillipean crazy i know since i live alway in the states well anyways i been trying to keep my body poor for her but time to time i give in and mastubated dont know why it just happens i get really bored and start to. i dont know i guess what i asking is this wrong for a single guy to masturbate especailly since i am a chirstian do u think this is something God created to releave sexual stress of being a virign and have the only girl u tottaly love live so fair away.

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Answer by Mikey
No, it’s okay to masturbate! Wack a way!

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